You are so much more than your worst mistake.

Hi! I’m Kristina joy. this is a safe place for the christian woman who had an affair.

You probably haven’t found a space that felt safe enough to be honest about what happened. This is that space. No shame, no scripts, just a way home to God.

Wherever you are on your journey, you’re welcome here.

Maybe you’re still tangled up and trying to figure out how to cut contact. Maybe it’s behind you, and you’re learning how to live and love life again. Either way, you don’t deserve to carry this alone.

It’s time to move from shame into freedom, joy, and peace.

not sure where to begin?

Let’s find your next right step, together.

One honest conversation can change everything. On a Breakthrough Call, we’ll name where you are what healing could actually look like for you- no pressure, no judgment.

Ways we can walk together

However you begin, every path is built on safety, whole-being healing, and the nearness of God.

What women are finding here

Get It Free: Your not-so-average-guide to no contact

Free with your name and email

The first and hardest step is ending the affair. This is the not-so-average guide I wish I’d had. Honest, practical, and full of grace for the woman doing the hardest and bravest thing she’s ever done.

The Intimacy After Infidelity Podcast

Intimacy After Infidelity is where this work lives out loud. New episodes air every Tuesday and Thursday, for the woman healing from her own affair. Come listen, I think you’ll feel less alone by the end of the very first one.

88 | Hold Your Emotions Without Letting Them Hijack You

If you’ve ever wondered why the wrong thing could feel so right, this episode is for you.

74 | Where Do I Even Start With Healing After My Affair?

If you’ve just ended an affair—or maybe you’ve confessed and you’re still spinning in shame—you might be wondering: Where do I even start?

93 | The Truth About Closure And Why You Don’t Need His Words to Heal

If you’ve ever waited for one last conversation, apology, or goodbye before you could move on, this episode will help you take your power back and find closure with God instead.